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M…nKΩxi `~i-m¤ú‡K©i fvB G‡m‡Q evmvq| `ycyi‡ejv ZviB †ndvh‡Z `k eQ‡ii Kv‡Ri †g‡qwU‡K †i‡L M…nKΩx †M‡Qb kwcs‡q| †jvKUv †g‡qwU‡K ûgwK w`‡jv- ÔKvD‡K wKQy ej‡j †g‡i jvk evwb‡q †dj‡e|Õ
mvZ eQ‡ii dyUdy‡U †Q‡jUvI eyS‡Z cvi‡jv bv Pv”Py Zvi mv‡_ evievi Ggb Ki‡Q †Kb| Pv”Py e‡j‡Q GUv GKUv wm‡µU gRvi †Ljv- KvD‡K ejv hv‡e bv| wKš‘ Zvi Lye Kó n‡”Q, e¨_v jvM‡Q| Av¤§y-AveŸy‡K wK Zvi ejv DwPZ? hw` Zviv wek¦vm bv K‡i? I‡KB cuPv fv‡e? Av”Qv, PvPv †Zv Lye fv‡jv, Zv‡K KZ wK gRvi †Ljbv †`q- KZ Mí K‡i! e‡j w`‡j wK PvPv Avi KL‡bv I‡K Av`i Ki‡e bv? †m Kxfv‡e ej‡e Av¤§y-AveŸy‡K?
gv‡qi ey‡K gyL jywK‡q gvqveZx Kb¨vwkïwU hLb e‡j DV‡jv M«v‡gi evwo †eov‡Z G‡m Zvi mv‡_ Kx wbg©g NUbvUv N‡U †M‡Q, nZf¤^ gv †g‡qi †Pv‡Li Rj gy‡Q ej‡jb, ÔPyc K‡i _v‡Kv, KvD‡K †ev‡jv bv!Õ
Kv‡K Avgiv PvBì †m·Pz¨qvj A¨vweDR ejwQ?
PvBì †m·Pz¨qvj A¨vweDR (CSA) †K ejv hvq, ÔThe imposition of sexual acts, or acts with sexual overtones, by one or more persons on a child (under 18) – Save the children, CSA Draft Policy.
1.wkïi †Mvcb A‡½ AbvKvwO&¶Z ¯úk©,
2.wkï‡K Kv‡iv †Mvcbv½ ai‡Z ejv,
3.Penetration of a child’s mouth with a penis,
4.wkïi cb© Qwe †Zvjv,
5.wkï‡K c‡b©vMªvwd †`Lv‡bv Ges wkïi mvg‡b bMœ nIqv,
6.wkï‡`i cwZZve…wˇZ †XvKv‡bv, evj¨weevn,
7.wkïi mv‡_ eqm Abyc‡hvMx sexual behavior wb‡q Av‡jvPbv,
8.wkï‡K al©Y ev al©‡Yi †Póv Kiv (hv †Q‡j ev †g‡q wkï †h Kv‡iv †¶‡ÎB NU‡Z cv‡i) BZ¨vw`| myZivs, †Kej al©Y bq, wkï-†hŠbwbh©vZb GKwU e¨vcK cwim‡ii kã|
wkïi Dci c«fve : gvbwmK welbœZv, mwnsm AvPiY, AvZ¥cxobg~jK Kvh©Kjvc (wb‡R‡K wewfbœfv‡e Kó †`Iqv), AvZ¥wek¦v‡m NvUwZ I nxbgb¨Zv, `yt¯^cœ, AmvgvwRK AvPiY, mgeqmx‡`i mv‡_ wgk‡Z bv cviv, nVvr nVvr Pg‡K IVv, AvZ¥nZ¨vi c«eYZv (wK‡kvi e‡qmx‡`i †¶‡Î), ¯^vfvweK gvbwmK weKv‡k evav| kvixwiK wkï ¸iæZifv‡e AvnZ n‡Z cv‡i, †Kvb †Kvb †¶‡Î wPiZ‡i c«Rbb ¶gZv nviv‡Z cv‡i, wbD‡ivj¨wRKvj W¨v‡gR, `ªZ IRb K‡g hvIqv, iv‡Z weQvbv †fRv‡bv BZ¨vw`|
190wU †`‡ki DcvË wb‡q ˆZwi GK c«wZ‡e`‡b RvwZms‡Ni Zid †_‡K ejv n‡q‡Q, we‡k¦ cÖwZ `k R‡b GKRb †g‡qwkï awl©Z A_ev †hŠb wbh©vZ‡bi wkKvi nq| WHO Gi wn‡me g‡Z c«wZ eQi c…w_ex‡Z c«vq 40 wgwjqb wkï †hŠb wbh©vZ‡bi wkKvi nq| fvi‡Zi bvix I
wkï Dbœqb gš¿Yvj‡qi 2007 mv‡ji c«wZ‡e`‡b †`Lv hvq, fvi‡Z 53 fvM wkï ˆkk‡e †hŠb wbcxo‡bi wkKvi nq|
†eªwKs `¨v mvB‡jÝ- bv‡g GKwU †emiKvwi ms¯’vi GKRb Kg©KZv †ivKmvbv myjZvbv e‡jb, Ôevsjv‡`‡ki kZKiv beŸBfvM wkï cvwievwiK MwÛ‡ZB al©Y †_‡K ïiæ K‡i AbvKvw•LZ kvixwiK ¯úk©mn †Kvb bv †Kvb †hŠb wbcxo‡bi wkKvi n‡”Q|Õ 1997 mv‡j Zviv ˆkk‡e †hŠb wbh©vZ‡bi wkKvi 50 Rb e¨w³i mv¶vrKvi †bb, hvi g‡a¨ 46 RbB cwiev‡ii m`m¨, AvZ¥xq-¯^Rb, cwiwPZ gvbyl‡`i Øviv wbh©vwZZ n‡qwQ‡jb| A_©vr gvÎ 4 Rb wkïi wbh©vZbKvix wQ‡jb AcwiwPZ e¨w³iv|
evsjv‡`‡ki gwnjv I wkïwelqK gš¿Yvj‡qi cÖwZ‡e`‡b †`Lv hvq, 2001 †_‡K 2013 ch©šÍ cvuP eQ‡ii Kg e‡qmx 286 Rb wkï †m·yqvj A¨vweD‡Ri wkKvi n‡q‡Q, hvi g‡a¨ 99 fvM wkï al©‡Yi wkKvi| 2009 mvj †_‡K 2014 mvj ch©šÍ ‡h 396 Rb wkï (Ab~aŸ© 18) XvKv †gwW‡Kj K‡jR nvmcvZv‡ji Iqvb÷c µvBwmm †m›Uvi, †e«wKs `¨v mvB‡jÝ I XvKv wkï nvmcvZv‡ji KvDb‡mwjs‡qi AvIZvq Av‡m Zv‡`i 86 †Q‡jwkï| †Q‡jwkïivI ksKvi evB‡i bq|
Kxfv‡e GKRb wbh©vZbKvix‡K wPb‡eb? †Kb wKQy gvbyl- GB N…Y¨ AvPiYwU K‡i?
eqm, †Pnviv, wj½, †ckv †f‡` GKRb wkï-†hŠbwbh©vZbKvix †h †KDB n‡Z cv‡i| myZivs Zv‡K †Pbv ZZ mnR bq| Giv wkï‡`i mv‡_ Lye mn‡R wg‡k †h‡Z cv‡i| mvaviYZ Mí e‡j I Dcnvi w`‡q cÖ_‡g Giv wkï‡`i fv‡jvevmv I wek¦vm AR©b K‡i †bq, Gici wb‡R‡`i D‡Ïk¨ mvab K‡i| Lye cwiKwíZfv‡e G‡Mvq| Avgiv †c‡Wvwdwjqvi K_v Rvwb| GUv GKUv †m·yqvj wWRAW©vi|
†c‡Wvwdwjqvi †ivMxiv †Kej wkï‡`i (hviv GL‡bv eqtmwÜKv‡j †cŠu‡Qvqwb) cªwZ Avm³ _v‡K| †Kb wKQy gvbyl- GB N…Y¨ AvPiYwU K‡i- G wb‡q we¯Íi M‡elYv n‡q‡Q| g‡bvweÁvbxiv e‡jb, †hme wkï ˆkk‡e `xN©mgq a‡i †hŠb wbh©vZ‡bi wkKvi n‡qwQ‡jv G‡`i ‡KD †KD †hŠe‡b †c‡WvdvB‡j cwiYZ nq| †c‡WvdvBj‡`i wKQy ˆewkó¨ Av‡Q| †hgb- Giv cÖavYZ nq cyiæl (Z‡e K`vwPr bvixI n‡Z cv‡i), mgKvgx‡`i g‡a¨I †c‡Wvwdwjqvi wKQy j¶Y †`Lv hvq, cÖvßeq¯‹‡`i mv‡_ G‡`i †Zgb mL¨ _v‡K bv eis G‡`i mL¨ _v‡K wkï‡`i mv‡_, Giv wkï‡`i mv‡_ cÖvßeq¯‹‡`i g‡Zv AvPiY K‡i|
wbh©vZbKvix wkï‡K mvaviYZ †h K_v¸‡jv e‡j-
1. GUv †Zvgvi Avgvi gv‡S GKUv Ôwm‡µUÕ, KvD‡K ejv hv‡e bv| (ev”Pviv G‡Z g‡b K‡i Zv‡K ¸iæZ¡ †`Iqv n‡”Q|)
2.Av‡mv Avgiv ei-eD †Lwj|
3.Zywg hw` GUv †Zvgvi gv‡K/evev‡K e‡j `vI Avwg †Zvgv‡K †g‡i †dj‡ev|
4.Zywg e‡j w`‡jI †Zvgvi K_v †KD wek¦vm Ki‡e bv|
5.mevB †Zvgv‡KB Lvivc fve‡e, mevB †Zvgv‡K †Q‡o P‡j hv‡e|
6.Zywg hw` Avgvi K_v g‡Zv KvR bv K‡iv Avi †Kvbw`b Avwg †Zvgv‡K fv‡jvevm‡ev bv|
Avcbvi wkï‡K i¶v‡_© Avcbvi KiYxq-
1. KL‡bv hw` †`‡Lb/ wbwðZfv‡e Rvb‡Z cv‡ib †Kvb cÖvßeq¯‹ †jvK/gwnjv Avcbvi wkï‡K ÔAvgvi eDÕ/ ÔAvgvi eiÕ e‡j m‡¤^vab Ki‡Q, K‡Vvifv‡e Zv‡K wb‡la K‡i †`‡eb|
2. Avcbvi wkï‡K †Kvb c«vßeq¯‹ e¨w³i cªwZ A¯^vfvweKfv‡e AvK…ó †`L‡j Zvi e¨vcv‡i mveavb †nvb|
3. KL‡bv Avcbvi wkï‡K Kv‡iv evmvq †h‡Z/ Kv‡iv †Kv‡j em‡Z/ Kv‡iv cv‡k em‡Z Zvi B”Qvi weiæ‡× eva¨ Ki‡eb bv| eis Zvi KvQ †_‡K Abxnvi KviY †R‡b wbb Av`i K‡i| kwcs g‡j †`vKv‡bi ÷vd‡`i e`‡j wb‡RB wkï‡K †cvkvK civ/ U«vqvj †`qvq mnvqZv Kiæb|
4. Avcbvi wkï hw` gv‡V †Lj‡Z hvq, †Lqvj ivLyb †m Kv‡`i mv‡_ †L‡j| gv‡V eo †Q‡jivI †Lj‡Z hvq, G‡`i ØvivI wbh©vwZZ n‡Z cv‡i Avcbvi wkï|
5. Avcbvi wkï‡K hw` †`‡Lb †m Zvi eq‡mi mv‡_ AmvgÄm¨c~Y© sexual behavior Rv‡b, Ges Zvi wewfbœ †Mvcbv½‡K weK…Z/A™¢yZ bv‡g (†Kv‡bv mø¨vs) wPwýZ Ki‡Q, Zvn‡j Zvi KvQ †_‡K †R‡b wbb †m G¸‡jv †Kv_v †_‡K wk‡L‡Q| †i‡M wM‡q bq, ˆa‡h©i mv‡_ Rvbyb| hw` Rvbvi Drm wUwf/ B›Uvi‡bU nq, `ªæZ DrmgyL eÜ Kiæb| hw` Rvbvi Drm †Kvb e¨w³ nq, Zvi m¤ú‡K© mveavb _vKyb| Zvi mv‡_ wkï‡K KL‡bv wgk‡Z †`‡eb bv|
6. Mªv‡gi evwo †eov‡Z †M‡j/ †Kvb AvZ¥x‡qi evwo †eov‡Z †M‡j iv‡Z Nygv‡bvi mgq wkï‡K AvZ¥xq/KvwRb GgbKv‡iv mv‡_ GKv GKv Nygy‡Z †`‡eb bv| wb‡Ri Kv‡Q ivLyb|
wb‡Ri myi¶v wbwðZ Ki‡Z wkï‡K †kLvb :
1. Avcbvi wkï‡K/ wK‡kvi mšÍvb‡K ax‡i ax‡i Zvi eqm Dc‡hvMx sexual education Avcbv‡KB w`‡Z n‡e, bvn‡j †KD Zv‡K weK…Z aviYv w`‡q Zv‡K wbh©vZb Kivi my‡hvM wb‡Z cv‡i| GKw`‡b me †kLv‡bvi †Póv Ki‡eb bv|
2. wkï‡K Zvi cª‡Z¨KwU †Mvcb A‡½i bvg Rvbvb| †Kvb A½¸‡jv c«Kvk Kiv hv‡e †Kvb¸‡jv †Mvcb ivL‡Z n‡e Zvi cy‡ivcywi Ávb Zv‡K w`‡Z n‡e| Avcbvi wkï‡K †evSvb- †KvbwU Ôfv‡jv Av`iÕ †KvbwU Ôg›` Av`iÕ| †KD Zv‡K Ôfv‡jv Av`iÕ Ki‡j †Kvb mgm¨v †bB| Ôg›` Av`iÕ Ki‡jB mv‡_ mv‡_ evev/ gv/ evmvi eo KvD‡K Rvbv‡Z n‡e|
3. †Zvgvi kix‡ii wKQz RvqMv Av‡Q, †KD hw` G¸‡jv g›`fv‡e a‡i A‡bK eo wec` NU‡Z cv‡i G¸‡jvi | Ôfv‡jv Av`iÕ Kivi Rb¨ KL‡bv †KD Rwo‡q ai‡Z cv‡i| wKš‘ Zywg hLbB eyS‡e †KD Ôg›` Av`iÕ Kievi Rb¨ a‡i‡Q Zv‡K †Rv‡i ÔbvÕ ej‡Z n‡e| hw` †m bv †kv‡b Zvn‡j wPrKvi w`‡Z n‡e, †m †hB †nvK bv †Kb Avi Zv‡K Zywg hZB fv‡jvev‡mv bv †Kb| †mB RvqMv †_‡K m‡i wbivc` †Kvb RvqMvq P‡j Avm‡Z n‡e| Aek¨B gv wKsev evev hv‡K Zywg me‡P‡q †ewk wek¦vm K‡iv Zv‡K e‡j w`‡Z n‡e| (AvBwWqvwU ÔmZ¨‡gf Rq‡ZÕi PvBì †m·yqvj A¨vweDRÕ wb‡q Kiv Gwc‡mv‡Wi IqvK©kc †_‡K †bqv n‡q‡Q|
4. Avcbvi wkï‡K †kLvb- †h wm‡µ‡Ui mv‡_ Lvivc KvR Rwo‡q _v‡K †m Ôwm‡µUÕ e‡j w`‡Z nq bvn‡j wec` nq|
5. Zv‡K ejyb, hviv Ôg›` Av`iÕ/ ÔLvivc Av`iÕ Ki‡e Zviv KL‡bv fv‡jv gvbyl bq, Zv‡`i fv‡jvevmv hv‡e bv|
6. AbjvB‡b †m·yqvj A¨vweDR wb‡q wkï‡`i Dc‡hvMx fv‡jv fv‡jv m‡PZbZvg~jK IqvK©k‡ci wfwWI cv‡eb, wkï‡K mv‡_ wb‡q †m¸‡jv †`Lvb| Avcbvi kn‡i †Kvb IqvK©kc n‡j †m¸‡jv‡Z wkï‡K wb‡q †h‡Z cv‡ib|
Avcbvi wkï Kv‡iv Øviv †m·yqvwj A¨vweDRW n‡jv, GLb Avcbvi KiYxq Kx?
1.Avcbvi wkï hw` Kv‡iv bv‡g Avcbvi Kv‡Q bvwjk K‡i, wkï‡K wek¦vm Kiæb| wkïiv mvaviYZ GB e¨vcv‡i wg_¨v e‡j bv| Avcwb Awek¦vm Ki‡j fwel¨‡Z nq‡Zv Avi KL‡bvB wkïwU Avcbvi mv‡_ †kqvi Ki‡e bv|
2. Avcbvi wkï‡K GUv eyS‡Z †`qv hv‡e bv Zvi mv‡_ Lye fqsKi wKQy N‡U †M‡Q| Avcwb Avcbvi wkïi mv‡_ ¯^vfvweK e¨envi KiæY, Aw¯’i n‡q hv‡eb bv|
3. wbqwgZ GKRb fv‡jv wkïg‡bvweÁvbx‡K w`‡q KvDb‡mwjs Kivb|
4. wkïwU hw` Lye ¸iæZi wbh©vZ‡bi wkKvi nq Zvn‡j `ªæZ Zv‡K nvmcvZv‡j wb‡q hvb| we‡klÁ wPwKrmK I wkï g‡bvweÁvbxi civgk© wbb| KL‡bvB wkïwU‡K eKvewK Kiv hv‡e bv| eis Zv‡K Avk¦¯Í Ki‡Z n‡e hv n‡q‡Q Zv †Kvbfv‡eB Zvi Aciva bq, Aciva IB e¨w³i| e¨vcviwU hw` Av`vjZ ch©šÍ hvq, we‡kl e¨e¯’vq g‡bvweÁvbxi gva¨‡g wkïi Revbe›`x wb‡Z n‡e, KL‡bvB wkï‡K Rbmg‡¶ ÔZvi mv‡_ Kx n‡q‡QÕ Gi eY©bv w`‡Z ejv hv‡e bv| Gme wkïi g‡b †bwZevPK cªfve †dj‡Z cv‡i|
wbh©vZbKvix K`vwPr A‡Pbv gvbyl nb, AwaKvsk mgq †m wbKU ev `yim¤ú©‡Ki AvZ¥xq, wk¶K, cwiev‡ii †jvK, cvwievwiK eÜy, c«wZ‡ekx, Kv‡Ri †jvK BZ¨vw` nb| GLv‡b GKwU welq D‡jøL¨ †h †Kej m‡›`n K‡i A‡nZyK KvD‡K wRÁvmvev` Ki‡eb bv, G‡Z e¨w³MZ m¤úK© Lvivc n‡Z cv‡i| Avevi, wbwðZ n‡j j¾vq Pyc K‡i _vK‡eb bv, †m Avcbvi hZ Nwbó ev m¤§vwbZ RbB †nvK bv †Kb| cvwievwiKfv‡e kvwjm Kiv †M‡j fv‡jv wKsev AvBwb mnvqZv †bevi cÖ‡qvRb n‡j wbb|
wewfbœ I‡qemvBU Ges †inbygv wmwÏKvi eøM †_‡K
